Thanks for the additional information on those RA speakers, @nonoise. Those do seem really great!
Follow up question to this group - I haven't yet purchased the P3s (which was my original conclusion) because I'm getting new carpet installed in the listening room. Meanwhile, I keep finding reasonably priced used Harbeth 30.2s (example here). Used P3 XDs plus stands will be ~$3k. These 30.2s are not much more.
My gut tells me that this speaker is too large for my room (see original post). But, the deals on these 30.2 are tempting. I've listened to 30.2 in a larger room and it was great.
Looking for some input and guidance on the 30.2s and particularly if I really should not put them in a room of my size.
Thanks