Lost but not defeated
Very well said! Put another way — YOU’RE LEARNING VERY VALUABLE INFORMATION!!! Yes, what you’re doing now is hard and often very frustrating, but keep fighting the fight and you’ll get there!
Question - in a perfect world --- should it ever appear that an instrument is coming directly from the speaker in the soundstage? Or should everything be presented in an open space? I hope this question makes sense.
There are some recordings — oftentimes older recordings — where the sound of an instrument or singer will just be “stuck” to the speaker. Nothing you can really do about that because it’s just baked in and can also be a function of the speaker design characteristics. But, I find the better you get your speakers dialed in the less “sticky” they become and images tend to just float better in space. This is the prime benefit of the effort you’re putting in now. I’d forget about tilting the speakers back at this point because you’re just introducing another variable into the equation you really don’t need to deal with on top of all the other very important stuff you’re trying to figure out. Keep experimenting with the basics — distance from back wall, distance between speakers, toe-in, etc. — and once you get that right, and you’ll know it when you do, then maybe mess with how far to tilt the speakers back if at all. Keep in mind, your speakers were not designed to be tilted so just don’t do that until you have the other stuff right. Just my $0.02 FWIW, and keep fighting the good fight! It’ll pay off.