Mrtennis,
The Oppo is not as bad as you say. maybe in his system it is. Running directly to the nicely detailed and airy AES tube power amp(w/o a preamp) it is quite acceptable compared to any cheap cdp in its price or slightly more. I have done my own chassis, crystal, and chip dampening of the Oppo with amazing results. A good rack, interconnects, and clean power are also noticeable.
Many owners have had good results as a transport, unlike your results, so maybe it need to be balanced into your system. It does have excellent DVD/movie sound as you state.