Well, I finally decided on speakers, and I didn't quite end up where I thought I was headed -- which is good. I thank everyone for their input. I looked into every speaker recommended in the thread, and probably spent too much time researching and choosing. Oh well
. In the end I went with GoldenEar Triton 7 mini-towers.
I am sure there are better speakers out there, but the combination of sound, design, size, and price made it a good choice.
So after researching the Aon 3s by GoldenEar, I found a dealer in Minneapolis who also had a blowout sale on Peachtree integrated amp/DACs. So I returned my Nova 65SE and upgraded to a 125 SE in Rosewood ($1,100).
With that purchase they gave me a $250 credit for speakers and happened to have a home demo open-box set of new Triton 7s marked down, so with the credit I got the GoldenEar Triton 7s for $800.
The mini towers work perfectly and sound great. In the end, I just didn't think the bookshelf/monitor route was going to satisfy me (thanks for the room size comment btw), and going to stand mounted speakers wasn't going to work as well with the children (1 & 3 years).
Additionally, the wife said that she didn't mind the look of the Triton 7s either, even though they were in black.
Add to that, I got the Rega Fono MM amp and the Pro-Ject Carbon Debut Esprit SB turntable for my vinyl and the Peachtree BT-1 for bluetooth devices. When all was said and done the entire kit came in under 3k.
Thanks everyone.
k.