I agree with the wife, the stands are distractingly ug..'
However, before you rush into new ones, I encourage you to mess about with toe-in and a milk crate, something low enough to need to tilt them up, so all the angles of reflection are altered.
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I use a SPL meter to help me, on a tripod, ear height
and this test cd, with a full range of 1/3 octavetones
https://www.discogs.com/release/7290000-Various-Amazing-Bytes
expensive, I'm sure I could figure out a copy.