Two things:
"not a fan of how the ARC amps are built with mounting the sockets for those big ass kT-150 onto the circuit board."
This depends on the board's construction. The ARC board is thick and ridged. It feels industrial. ARC's weak link has never been their tube sockets. I've never owned a PL so I don't have personal experience with their boards but I'm told they are thinner than the ARC's boards.
and;
"The 160s I am considering is $24K has power rating of 140 watts. It is a cleaner sounding amp that does not have much voicing. Offering a more accurate presentation, with more inner detail. That may prove to have better synergy with the ARC gear I already own. Also, the case work and overall appearance of the product is top notch"
I think you've answered your own question :)
If customizing the PL is fun for you by all means tinker away- I find great satisfaction tinkering at my bench- but my ARC gear is my anchor.
Have you considered waiting for the 320M? That may be your all-in-all. (If you have a fat wallet)
ARC (for all it's foibles since WZ died) has IMO always been designed to work best with it's own components. ARC is a neutral palate. Many don't like that- they shop for voicing. So:
Listen in your own room and choose based on that. In the end how it sounds is priority #1.