All your post made sense thanks but for 2 points....
It is possible to enjoy an immersive inclusive soundstage engulfing the listener with swmall speakers ..
I know it because i enjoy it ...
The reason why you did not observe it is because you think that nearfield listening dont need acoustic control of the smaller room as with bigger speakers ion a bigger room ... Sorry but it is not the case ... Even in near listening in a small room the timing of the waves , the pressure zone distribution , the crosstalk control between speakers , any acoustic factor matter as much as with bigger speakers in bigger room ...
The Grandeur of Large Speakers:
1. Immersive Soundstage:
Large speakers, especially when paired with substantial upstream gear, have the capacity to create an expansive and immersive soundstage. This can be captivating, particularly for those who appreciate the feeling of being enveloped by music.
There is no fatigue with bigger speakers in a bigger room if all acoustic factors are in control ...
2. Long-term Listenability:
The overwhelming nature of a large speaker system might make it less suitable for long-term listening, as you noted. The sheer power and impact may be too much for extended sessions, leading to listener fatigue.
I totally agree with your wise conclusion :
Personal Preference Matters:
Your preference for near-field listening in a small room is a valid and common choice. The intimacy, precision, and comfort of such a setup align with the preferences of many audiophiles. Ultimately, the "best" audio system is a deeply personal choice, influenced by individual taste, listening habits, and the desired emotional connection with the music. Whether it's the grandeur of a large speaker system or the intimacy of a near-field setup, the key is to find a configuration that brings joy and satisfaction to the listener.