which cables to I need for my NAIM NAP 250 DR ?

I highly recommend DHLabs as really good budget cables and Cardas. Cardas are kind of calibrated to the kind of equipment they are going to be connected to.
 

If there is a lot of discussion of what great detail your equipment has (in reviews or by yourself), then Cardas… it is very musical and will take the edge or fatigue off while delivering powerful bass. If your equipment is natural and musical DHLabs will deliver greater detail.

ok so further research shows I evidently require an XLR to dual RCA specifically wired for NAIM

two vendors mentioned here often already suggested to me to just get their standard xlr to dual xlr y cable,

apparently completely incorrect

naim requires speciel cabling weare a major Naim dealer 

the cable you linked to wont work

we have wireworld build custom din cables for us which sound better then naims cables

Dave ane Troy

Audio intellect NJ.

Naim and Wireworld dealers.

thank you audiotroy

Naim themselves appeared confused by the question