a wise gentlemen, mike vans evers,suggested that since all components have resonance points, it is sensible to consider tuning your system, so that the resulting resonances are pleasing.
thus, coupling or decoupling is not an issue for me.
i prefer soft objects, since hard objects, in my experience,"harden" the sound, and soft objects soften the sound.
there is no perfect solution and one who prefers a highly focused sound would probably prefer hard objects.
wood is interesting. using cocobolo, ebony, maple, or other woods, produce unique results. i have visited a lumber yard and purchased wood blocks comprised of different wood types. it won't cost too much and you might achieve the voicing you desire.
thus, coupling or decoupling is not an issue for me.
i prefer soft objects, since hard objects, in my experience,"harden" the sound, and soft objects soften the sound.
there is no perfect solution and one who prefers a highly focused sound would probably prefer hard objects.
wood is interesting. using cocobolo, ebony, maple, or other woods, produce unique results. i have visited a lumber yard and purchased wood blocks comprised of different wood types. it won't cost too much and you might achieve the voicing you desire.