@allenf1963 , I think that part of the tubed pre in front of SS amp appeal might be related to heat and maintenance. Meaning that an amp that utilizes output tubes can run pretty hot and also requires occasional bias checks & adjustments and also that the output tubes are probably the tubes that are going to require the most frequent replacement, whereas the smaller tubes most often used in the pre will usually last a lot longer. A lot longer. Thus, a "hypbrid" set up of a tubed pre in front of a SS amp gives one a bit of the vacuum tube flavor without as much maintenance. Also, some might argue (and I might be one who would now also make this argument) that the preamp might have more of an effect on the sonic presentation than the amp.
About 30 years ago, I actually started out the opposite--a ss HT preamp in front of a tube amp. I didn’t think that my system really started to sing & sound delicious until a few years later when I upgraded to a tube preamp (a second hand Cary SLP-90) in front of my tube amp..
As far as other preamps (besides ARC) to consider, most everyone may tell you that whatever they are running with is the way to go. A few years ago I upgraded to a 6SN7 based Cary SLP-05 and it did impart sonic characteristics (more air and imaging resulting in a larger & more defined soundstage) that I truly enjoy, but it may not be everyone’s cup of tea.