Well, I put up a post saying I would like to find other like-minded people for listening/social interactions. I was part of SMAC (Southeast Michigan Audio Club) for a few years, and this is what they did. Had meetings at people's houses.
I am willing to meet in a neutral spot to discuss with anyone about this.
I was part of Chicago Audio Club, but I never got the meeting invitations, etc.
I think there are enough people around Chicago to try this.