@mahgister, be concise. Also, you are in no position to lecture on kindness; you’ve been abrasive with great consistency.
I am as you are yourself not perfect but i do not confuse order with invitation...
I am abrasive sometimes but there is generally a reason... And if there is no reason sometimes i am abrasive with arguments , not with insults, and only sarcasms or orders and commands, this is my form of kindness speaking to the working mind of my friend ...
And i treat everyone on the same level then able to understand rational of arguments...
And i dont entertain grudges by the way ...😊This is my kindness...
I will never be concise because many things cannot be explained or described in few sentences as music mysteries or acoustics concepts etc or philosophical ideas ...( i am retired and miss my younger friends )
And i am not english born speakers i lack the art of ellipse and innuendos ...
Think about the way your "friend above was "kind" toward me ...😁
I discuss with you here just now , did i use order, insults, innuendos ?. No ...Only rational sentences...
My best to you ... 😊