I go for the “connection “. Are the musicians speaking (not just playing) with their instruments? With their voice and words?
It’s great to have a high end system, but, for me, it’s all about the MUSIC, not just the sound.
For example, Julie Londons, Cry me a River. Of course, it’s well recorded ( lovely Barney Kessel guitar). But, Julie expresses pain, disappointment, loss, anger, betrayel, treason! And, sweet revenge…all those things girls wanted to tell me. But, couldn’t articulate it like Julie. (That’s why I play it privately in the wee hours).
She almost makes me cry when I feel her pain. Almost.
As an audiophile, whenever I host a listening session for my fellow audiophiles, I always have a box of Kleenex in the room just in case. So, think about all those cry babies before you break out your Jim Nabors collection, mmmannnnn!