Chiming in with mark200mph, howardlee, and symphonicsoul....
Get thee to the best audiologist rated in your area for the cleaning and through test.
I found mine who was appreciative of my 'phile concerns to the point of not only dialing in on my tinnitus, but also printed out my response measurements for the frequencies he tests at.
Other than the 2 outboard eqs' I run on my various pairs, I've in my main 'puter (Win10Pro...for the time being...) I'm running the APO equalizer
https://sourceforge.net/p/equalizerapo/wiki/Documentation/
with the plug-in that makes it a bit more 'friendly' and/or obvious in intent....
https://sourceforge.net/projects/peace-equalizer-apo-extension/?source=typ_redirect
Either way, you can carve a notch 30db deep in your perceived resonances' center and parametric it as desired....
Free.....I like soundforge....some nice room eq 'wares as well..
There's a cute lynx app called sndpeek
https://soundlab.cs.princeton.edu/software/sndpeek/
....that allows for r/t waveforms, the big 3, inline or with your calibrat mic....
You can actually see what your DRC is doing or has done to that location of the mic.
Obscure fun, for some.
I hope you can get to the ear issue, something 'transient' in it's nature would drive me more nutz....
Good Fortune, J