@magon ....A good place to start; since you're in SoCA there's undoubtedly audiologists that give you the printouts of your 'interior fq response'....
Mine is in my high end, so difficult to totally erase without wiping out the correction applied.....I consider the remnants as my 'dial tone', throw-back concept that it is.
The Aurender has gotten good comments 'round here, so enjoy.
I like my pc for it's functionality, and I've hammered it to as quiet as possible; eq is mostly handed off to some pro versions with similar traits. Mostly used for room corrections as noted, 'tweaks' as desired, handed off to active x-overs.....
Was the LA Phil @ the Getty? If so, I'm jealous...
Like 'live' anything, but it's the audience end response that does me in....a 'dirty white noise', even if from a well-washed and duded up crowd...*L*
Been carrying a noise-canceling headset for just that.....one gets 'looks' but turn away when they observe the absurder.... ;)
Aids have come along way in their functionality and apps....linked to your cell, literally 'tweak-able' on the fly. I kid that I bought a Mac for my head rather than the shelf.... Like cars, motorcycles, and the like they've gotten their envelope pushed by the stage monitor ear units worn by the players....
Anyway, start with your 'on-board items' and carry on as needed or desired.
Squelch that nasty thang....👍😎
Luck, J