”If you DIY your own shielded power cords only connect the shield to the EGC at the male plug end. Leave the other end of the shield, at the IEC connector, floating.”
That is actually how I have always done it. I have never constructed a cable, including interconnects, where the shield acted as the ground, although I have seen it done with some manufactured interconnects when configured as balanced cables. My practice has been to always use a separate ground wire (same size as the connector wires) attached at both ends but to attach the shield only at the source end. That has worked well for me.