@sns "I should also add the Mundorf diy DC cables made a far larger difference than I was expecting"
I can second this observation. I tried both the Sonore DC4 and a Ghent GAC-4/1 star quad and didn't hear much difference over a cheap stock cable. However, when I used the Mundorf, I was extremely pleased with the improvement in speed and resolution with no downside to my ears. Always nice to have a significant improvement from a relatively cheap purchase.
I realize the thread is 4-5 months old now and I am not sure what the OP went with for a FMC, but I can wholeheartedly recommend the latest Opticalmodule from Sonore over the Etherregen. I was using the Etherregen with SFP optical in on one side and then an ethernet cable on the other side to my streaming DAC (Bricasti). I read in another forum that the OM deluxe was better than Etherregen. This is what my ears also told me as well. Surprisingly better.