@tubeguy80 I'd like to stay at $3K or below, which I think gives me plenty of options. All things being equal, I generally like to buy gently used as there's some good value to be had in gear that's not brand new, but that's not a necessity as whatever I get next I hope will be a long term speaker. I used my Aerials in the previous larger space for 7+ years, so I'm not a constant rotator of gear once I find something I really like.
I agree that demoing in my home/room with my gear is the best option. Unless I'm demoing a couple of pairs at once, I think my reference point (what has to be bettered) will be the Monitor Audios I currently have, because at least they sound better than the Aerials with this room size.
Based on multiple recommendations above, I did send an email to Fritz Speakers with my situation and plan to speak to him on the phone about his product line.
I will say the hardest thing for me at this point is the temptation to buy something used that originally sold in the $3K range now selling for $1.2-1.4K vs buying something new for close to that $3K budget. But buying used means you pay your $ and take your chances, vs finding a shop or company that allows demos like you suggested.