I owned an SME 3009, no experience with the long version or the other two.
Satisfied my long arm itch with a very long 12.5" effective arm from Russia. Unfortunately it has a fixed headshell, and the height adjustment is via set screws like the SME (mine made precise via micrometer provided). Your 3 choices all use the set screw method, not ideal for sure.
After changing from a single to a setup with 3 tonearms, the arm I like most is a removable headshell for alternate pre-mounted cartridges (including friends cartridges played here), combined with arm height/VTA refinement while playing (loosen/up or dn/lock by hand, no tools required).
I suggest you have a good look at Micro Seiki 505L, which is a compromise effective length of 11-1/8", with superb adjustment features, VTA while playing, and it’s headshell fitting allows Azimuth adjustment.
I installed two 505’s on a wonderful Luxman PD-444 TT for a friend, learned what to ask about/avoid, if you look for one, write me a private message.
btw, think long: have you considered the potential of two arms? If you listen to Jazz, there are so many wonderful Mono LPs, it is wonderful having the advantage of a true Mono Cartridge ready to go.