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About Lugnut -- Patrick Malone

Many of us have come to know Patrick Malone (Lugnut) as a friendly, helpful, knowledgeable and kind individual. He is a frequent and enthusiastic contributor to our analog discussion forum. He has initiated only 17 threads, but responded to 559 threads. I would guess that many, if not most, of us can recall a time when Pat replied with helpful advice to a question we posted or helped us track down a rare recording. I have come to love Pat as a friend, and to respect him as a man, and I suspect many of you share those feelings.

Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.

Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: lugnut50@msn.com. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: pfrumkin1@comcast.net.

I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.

Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.

As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.

Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
paul_frumkin
jphii
485 posts
 
Pat,

Hope all is going well, you are in my prayers.

Ready to talk about that rack now?

Joe
lugnut
1,190 posts
 
Joe,

Any time you want to visit is good with me.
twl
3,251 posts
 
Welcome home Pat.

It was refreshing to hear you sounding so good when we spoke a few days ago.

I'll be calling again soon, and we can catch up on all the stuff that happened since you got home.
lugnut
1,190 posts
 
Hi Guys,

Well, this posting is hard to write. I've struggled with the fact that the truth is probably going to be hard to share and perhaps harder to digest on the receiving end but hey, this thread has been so honest I feel I must do it. You posters have not been bashful about embracing me from afar and I cannot begin to tell you how much it has meant.

Yesterday was a bad day, one that made me weaken. My oncologist says it would be rare for one in my condition to live a year and that is with the help of chemo. I'll begin treatment this Friday and continue every third Friday until it no longer helps. I'll miss my ugly long hair as well as my facial hair I've had for over 35 years.

But then the Lugnut spirit kicked in. My wife and I went out for cheeseburgers, fries and soft drinks afterward. It tasted absolutely wonderful and I had no ill effect afterwards. I realize that I'm in control of such things and that I'll continue this kind of behavior as long as I wish, doctors be damned.

Yesterday evening was very special though and I feel I must share this great experience with you. Our monthly audio club meeting was last night and I've been wanting to go but worried that I would make the other members uneasy by being there. Wrong. Everyone was very nice and the music took over. We were treated to a live performance by a local concert pianist. The instrument was a Steinway Concert Grand. We listened to Grand Canyon Suite while watching a very special slide show of Grand Canyon images timed to the five movements. It was absolutely stunning. It sure made any attempt at listening to recorded music afterwards pale in comparison.

Pat
paul_frumkin OP
130 posts
 
Pat, I think it's safe to say we Audiogoners speak with one voice when I say how sad it is to hear this news. You're one of the good guys here ... actually, one of the best ... and we wish you could stick around forever. But none of us have a "forever" ticket in life, and the best we can do is to make the best of the time we are given ... short or long. As I see it, you've been doing just that, and I have little doubt that you will continuing doing just that.

Quite a few of us have pitched in with various contributions, which we hope will make your days a little more pleasant. (In a couple days, I will start a separate thread about that). This thread, the calls, cards and letters you've received, and the items you will soon receive, are a living testament to how much we all care for you, how much we wish you well, and how much we wish to brighten your days. If only a cure was ours to send your way, it would have already arrived on your doorstep wrapped in bows and ribbons!

Pat, I'm sure this news was not easy to share with us. Thank you for your courage. We hope that same courage serves you well in the days that lay ahead, and that in each one of them, you find enough that is good to keep keeping on.

With warmest regards,
Paul
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