Can you tell whether the cartridge body itself is vibrating so as to feed back into the tonearm wand? That is the only mechanism I can think of for this strange phenomenon. If you ignore the problem and play an LP, what happens? Is there added hum coming out of the speakers in addition to directly from the tonearm? Have you tried changing cartridges? If the insulation on the tonearm leads has a defect such that one of them is in bare metal contact with the tonearm wand, I still don't see how that would cause the phenomenon you report. The odds are vanishingly small that there are TWO defects, one on each lead such that there would be a voltage delivered to the tonearm wand (maybe). But strange things do happen.
Sometimes grounding everything to everything is a bad idea. Try removing some of those ground wires. But on the other hand, your report is clearly out of the ordinary; as you know, 99% of the time grounding problems manifest themselves on the amplified audio signal only, not in the form of causing vibration of an inert metal part.
Sometimes grounding everything to everything is a bad idea. Try removing some of those ground wires. But on the other hand, your report is clearly out of the ordinary; as you know, 99% of the time grounding problems manifest themselves on the amplified audio signal only, not in the form of causing vibration of an inert metal part.