How can anyone afford this ?


I consider myself a dedicated audiophile. I am 36(which I am guessing is a little younger than the average here) and single. I have been interested in high-end audio since I saw my uncle's Mcintosh and Threshold equipment for the first time when I was 5.
Since joining the workforce and saving a little I have always been trying to put together a nice system on a budget. I do OK financially(I am a systems engineer) but I do live in NYC which may put some of this into perspective.
Over the last 6 months I have struggled to buy(all used on Agon) a pair of Dynaudio Audience 42s and a Threshold CAS2 amp, Chang CLS3200, and cables(I haven't gone out[I don't have a girfriend], purchased anything else and really haven't eaten too much to be able to afford these and it is still a real stretch). I am using the amp with a direct connection from my CD/DVD player(Cambridge Audo Azur 540D...slightly modified[op amps, PS caps, bypass caps] that I have had for almost 10 years). A fellow has a Threshold FET2 series II(to match with the CAS2) he is holding for me but that seems like a pipe dream at this point along with a turntable.
A few years ago the analogue bug hit me.
I had a setup consisting of an Audio Analogue Settanta integrated and a Nottingham Horizon SE turntable with a Rega RB300 tonearm with the Incognto rewire and structural mod. This was not an expensive kit by any stretch but for me it almost put me in the poor house. I had to sell the entire rig to pay my bills and it hurt.
It seems over the last 10 years or so I have not been able to keep a kit for more than 6 months before I had to sell it. Whenever I don't have a rig I am constantly scanning the online Ads lusting for the next bargain to set up a system and cannot even listen to music on a mass market rig(I have been spoiled).
Anyway, I guess my question is how can anyone normal afford this hobby? What type of money do you have to be making to be able to enjoy this hobby.....$100,000/year? $500,000/year? Do you need to be worth millions? $5,000 barely gets you in the door(some interconnects cost more) and you could possibly spend millions. I am not looking to put together a $10,000 system(not even close...and that is modest in this hobby) but if I wanted to I don't see it ever being financially possible. If I had a girlfriend or a family(hopefully someday) I would not event be able to think about this hobby with a good conscience. I guess I am wondering if all these people in this hobby are millionaires? I am close to selling my rig again to pay the bills(the amp needed repair/recap and that was $450). Any advice for an audiophile who lusts to put together a nice rig but can't afford it? Should I get out and save for 5 or 10 years and then try again? Maybe I am in the wrong hobby but it is more addicting that crack to me(and more expensive). Maybe I should be a crackhead instead...that might be the only thing to make me forget about it. Thoughts?
adamd1205
To say trickle down economics hasn't worked in the US is a bit naive. The perfect example that it has worked is by looking at the poor in our country - those that get by and plan to live off the government. These, the poorest of the poor in our wonderful country, have a standard of livings many 10s of times better than the "working class" in many other countries. Here in the US we do not know and understand what being poor truly is. The truth of the matter is, even the poor in our country throw away and waste more money than the world's truly poor make in a year. This is a sad statistic on both sides of the proverbial ocean.

We should all be thankful for ending up in a modern society, in a country that does take care of its poor and has enough left over to try to assist other parts of the world. Countries and individuals that strive to be as well off as our poorest citizens.

02-09-11: Ckoffend
To say trickle down economics hasn't worked in the US is a bit naive. The perfect example that it has worked is by looking at the poor in our country - those that get by and plan to live off the government. These, the poorest of the poor in our wonderful country, have a standard of livings many 10s of times better than the "working class" in many other countries. Here in the US we do not know and understand what being poor truly is. The truth of the matter is, even the poor in our country throw away and waste more money than the world's truly poor make in a year. This is a sad statistic on both sides of the proverbial ocean.
but to say that trickle down *has* worked is simply stupid. the past 30 years has seen a massive shift in wealth to the top 5% of the population. at the same time the middle class has declined and the population of the poor has increased. no sensible interpretation of economics can take a concentration of wealth as evidence of a "trickle down" effect.
Paperw8, your statement is overly simplified, off the mark and just plan wrong.
Palasr, sex is no BS. And you can talk about it in a polite company. Just need to know how.

02-09-11: Raymonda
Paperw8, your statement is overly simplified, off the mark and just plan wrong.
maybe the following report will clarify your understanding:

http://sociology.ucsc.edu/whorulesamerica/power/wealth.html

note the following comments following figure 5:
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"Of all the new financial wealth created by the American economy in that 21-year-period, fully 42% of it went to the top 1%. A whopping 94% went to the top 20%, which of course means that the bottom 80% received only 6% of all the new financial wealth generated in the United States during the '80s, '90s, and early 2000s (Wolff, 2007)."
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one of the problems in the country today is that there are too many people who can only see the world as it appears to them - if things are ok by them then that means that things are ok period. it's just not that way in the real world and today's ok-for-you may be tomorrow's not-so-ok; i mean, there are a lot of former white collar workers who thought that things were ok in the 1990's who are now 99'ers. i suspect things don't look so ok for them today.