Nandric - If you need to have this discussion prior to getting married then you should already know that you're talking to the wrong person.
I have always made sure that my wife is well taken care of so that when I do choose to spent money on toys it's not a selfish purchase. When we were first married I got her a new flute that was much better quality than the one she had and even though she doesn't play it a lot, it's one of her favorite things.
Not only do I like to have nice things, but I much prefer for her to also have nice things.
If you know what's required prior to making a purchase make sure she's fully informed so that she doesn't think that you're constantly changing the plan.
You wouldn't like it if she came home with a new dress and then you found out that she also wanted new shoes and a purse that were also expensive. You'd prefer to know upfront, return the favor.
I have always made sure that my wife is well taken care of so that when I do choose to spent money on toys it's not a selfish purchase. When we were first married I got her a new flute that was much better quality than the one she had and even though she doesn't play it a lot, it's one of her favorite things.
Not only do I like to have nice things, but I much prefer for her to also have nice things.
If you know what's required prior to making a purchase make sure she's fully informed so that she doesn't think that you're constantly changing the plan.
You wouldn't like it if she came home with a new dress and then you found out that she also wanted new shoes and a purse that were also expensive. You'd prefer to know upfront, return the favor.