Tracking force and Unipivot tonearms


I have a Benz Glider and the "recommended" tracking force is 1.8 to 2.2 grams. I am tracking at about 2.4 or 2.5 just to keep it in the grooves during hot peaks on some records. A audiophile friend told me it is not uncommon especially with unipivots to set tracking force at 10 percent or higher than the recommended tracking force. The cart sounds much more full, less sibilant and a more solid sound at the sacrifice of a less air at this heavier tracking force.

Has anyone else found it absolutely necessary to set tracking forces much higher than the recommended force? My friend said it will not damage the cartridge or records at 2.4 or 2.5 grams. He said I should not get hung up on recommended tracking force as all tonearms are different and that it is just the "recommneded" tracking force
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Is this true? I would not think 2 to 3 tenths of a gram would have this affect. I could see if I was tracking a full gram over the recommended weight may be a little too heavy. I noticed some of the other Benz carts go as high as 2.5 grams. The compliance is fine for my arm
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I am tracking at about 2.4 or 2.5 just to keep it in the grooves during hot peaks on some records

Probably you should think about a better Playback System when this way is the only one which works well for you.
I use Graham Arms for more than 10 years now and I am always at the lower end. But I don't use rattling turntables ... :-)
Probably depends on the cartridge. I know that the Lyra Delos was designed to be tracked at 1.75 grams for the optimal SRA with the tonearm parallel to the record, but other cartridges might be designed differently and less prone to misalignment due to changes in VTF. I'd suggest to ask Benz and see what their opinion is.
I would have to think something is wrong somewhere. I would want my setup to allow me to tweek the VTF up or down to fine tune the sound. I would start with your gauge. Are you certain it is acurate?