How long is too long to ship?

kirk930, What was the guy’s feedback like? I'm starting to feel your pain even more than Ninjas. I have had a couple bad deals here but have never been burned for any money. Knock on wood. There is such a thing as stopping payment on a check but I won't mention it as not to make you nervous. Some people are a combination of rude and oblivious, which is to say they don't do a very good job of staying in touch. On the other side of the spectrum there are people who are the absolute best. Try to hang in there, I have been known to call information and get the guys home phone #. Needless to say they are always very surprised to here from the guy they've been ignoring on their computer all week. There are a couple other methods I use but would rather not discuss them in an open forum. Try a phone call. Also, ask yourself was the item really worth committing inter-state fraud over? Now might be a good time to get Agon involved, they will do there best to help. Good luck.

when I sell I state that as a buyer if you dont wish to use a USPS MO, then you must wait 10 days for the check to clear. I would assume that someone who prefers to pay by check rather than a MO or PayPal, isnt too concerned with a timely receipt of the product. From a sellers POV, a check, albeit convenient for a buyer, is a risk to the seller, NSF, stop payments, mail delays, can add up to loss of other sales.

hold tight, the other party may just trying to be cautious.