Newbee has it right in my view. Gold does not oxidize; that's one of the reasons why it's used, that plus its' conductivity. If it's darkening, it could be a build up of some of gunk which can be cleaned off with something like Caig Progold. Otherwise, the gold plating has simply worn off. As you probably know, one of gold's other characteristics is that it is very malleable. It can be stretched very thin. Some gold plating is only a few atoms thick!