First, I would differentiate between "merry go round" and "spiral staircase". They both go round and round, at least with the ss you get a little higher (better?) each time around. The mgr stays the same.
So hopefully you do get a little better each go around. Just take charge of you life and decide when enough is enough. If you feel you have a disorder, spend the money on professional help rather than a new set of cables or ?.
Re Mr Tennis, "don't enter the merry-go-round--problem solved." Good preventative advice, not a good answer to someone already there.
Scenario:
Drowning man: "How do I stop drowning?"
Mr T: "Don't go in the water".
DM: "I'll remember that next time but how about some help right now".
Just having a little fun :).