Stylus compliance is what matters... mechanically the same as matching shocks on a car. As an extreme example, the light weight Grace 707 tonearm creates interesting wow and flutter effects matched with inexpensive stiff suspension Grado cartridges with any record the slightest out of round. And heavy tonearms with highly compliant cartridges easily bottom out on records that are not perfectly flat.
So if you have a collection of treasures that are less than perfect LP's, matching compliance to mass does matter.
So if you have a collection of treasures that are less than perfect LP's, matching compliance to mass does matter.