I have a system that I would consider "ruthlessly revealing". My previous system is now our living room system is much less so although still pretty hi fi. It never called attention to how bad some recordings can sound but it also never created the sense of realism that the new system can. Overall, I guess I've chosen to take the good with the bad and listen to the best system the vast majority of the time.
One thing that has helped me deal with the huge amount of variability between recordings is trying to take apologists approach to listening. If I can, I try to categorize recordings stylistically. Here's what I mean:
Photorealistic: Instruments are life-sized, spread across a soundstage as they would be in a live venue.
Technicolor: Instruments sound real yet are embellished by a larger than life soundstage. An example of this is the piano being spread over a 15-foot stage or drum sounds being farther apart that a pair of human arms could stretch.
Impressionistic: Pleasant yet unfocused instrument sounds in a large soundstage. I like to have at least one real sounding instrument in the mix to add some kind of point of reference.
Weird yet appropriate: Nothing sound very realistic but everything works in some sort of musical netherworld.
Raw: Unpolished yet crackling with at least some kind of energy. These are the best of the garage recordings.
Background: Music that was never meant to be the listening focus. Also, some of the ethereal stuff to fall asleep by.
Shitty: Everything else.
It would be nice if nothing were ever shitty but that's probably never going to happen considering the mass-market focus of the music industry.
One thing that has helped me deal with the huge amount of variability between recordings is trying to take apologists approach to listening. If I can, I try to categorize recordings stylistically. Here's what I mean:
Photorealistic: Instruments are life-sized, spread across a soundstage as they would be in a live venue.
Technicolor: Instruments sound real yet are embellished by a larger than life soundstage. An example of this is the piano being spread over a 15-foot stage or drum sounds being farther apart that a pair of human arms could stretch.
Impressionistic: Pleasant yet unfocused instrument sounds in a large soundstage. I like to have at least one real sounding instrument in the mix to add some kind of point of reference.
Weird yet appropriate: Nothing sound very realistic but everything works in some sort of musical netherworld.
Raw: Unpolished yet crackling with at least some kind of energy. These are the best of the garage recordings.
Background: Music that was never meant to be the listening focus. Also, some of the ethereal stuff to fall asleep by.
Shitty: Everything else.
It would be nice if nothing were ever shitty but that's probably never going to happen considering the mass-market focus of the music industry.