WOW, direct response from the manufacturer. That should help restore some faith in humanity, or at least in the audio world (if not shipping companies).
Over the past month, I have been having some fun upgrading my system and doing business with some smaller manufacturers of audio gear, namely Blue Circle, Parts Connexion (in relation to an Anthem cd-player) and Zu Cable. They have all been very accommodating and will do their utmost in providing great service.
Now, I'm just waiting for delivery of some of the gear that I've ordered and hoping that shipping/delivery will be smooth and without damage. Just have to wait and see, and I'll report back on the experience.
Abbeydog, do not give up hope. Have you tried claiming at all with Bax?