Your pre-amp inverts polarity, not phase. You don't need to consider that, just connect one of the speakers out of phase. Presumably you are putting the speakers face-to-face and running them out of phase in order to cancel out as much of the sound as possible. If so, use a mono source. And be careful not to turn the volume up too high.
Not sure what you mean by directionality.
Not sure what you mean by directionality.