Hey Rob,
I happen to have just checked this thread and saw your post as I'm sitting hear listening to the Rolling Stones at about a zillion dB on my headphones. I got a chuckle out of your advice, but seriously - thanks for the reminder. It's been so long since I could really crank up a system and not feel a need to be critical of the gear (and the room) that I've found myself just getting into the music - which frankly is a blast. But your point is well taken and I probably should turn these things down.
I'm with you, if I could get my system to sound right in my room I'd rather hear that - but I just couldn't make it happen in the room I have - so I've given up and I'm rockin' out.
Thanks again for the good caution - everyone should heed it.