This indeed is a sensitive issue. Something similar happened to me, where I shipped off a small amp. I believe I got a phone call from the gentleman claiming the unit did not work. Well, the unit was working when it left, and
I reminded him the meters, (which took bulbs) would need the bulbs replaced to be able to see them. Well, that was not the problem. Needless to say I was very upset and depressed and got no sleep that night. I did not hear from him again so I called him, and it turns out he was trying to use some speaker cables with lugs that just weren't making good contact. But, I thought for sure he had blown it up by messing around with it when all it needed were those little bulbs. I don't know how I would have handled it if he had. The main thing I got out of this was the possibility of something like that happening. Sometimes it can be just the stupidest thing, even for someone who's been around this stuff all their life and hooked up a ton of things. So, all I can really say is "Patience, patience" and don't jump to conclusions, just try and work through it. Another time I got a Marantz receiver that I could't get to work no how. Just on a fluke I put a tape in the vcr that was hooked up to it, and "Viola!" sound came out; and I'll never know why it didn't work prior.