How to Listen ??


i am mostly a newbie to all the audiophile stuff..
but i've been a sound/music lover all my life ..

so i wanna know .. HOW do you guys listen??

what to look for..

i can't understand how u can see the minor differences between similar amps or speakers..

and i have a lot of difficulties with attributes..

is it like race driving ?
SEAT TIME!!! ??
:p

what should i do to develop more my listening sense...

thank you all :)
jinmtvt
ok thank you ..
theese are all great comments..
i think that the thing to retain,
and it been the same thing in all questions i've asked,
is to listen with my ears to what i like and what i don't like..and feel the sound
so i think i'll stock with this and try to apply that and FEEL the music i like in the system i try :)

THANK YOU!

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aahhh.... music to a girl's ears..... men having a discussion on how to listen :~}
If you don't play an instrument then spend a bunch of time in small pubs, coffee houses or jazz clubs listening to acoustic music.......When you find a system that transports you back to the club experience buy it........