As for my amps, they have 26db gain and an input impedance 22K0hm.From the PS Audio website:
"No tube preamp should be asked to drive an input impedance of less than 30K..."
Take it for what it's worth, but I've just gone through the same thing as you are. We all know tube preamps can work with SS amps, and yet yours is in need of a gain reduction, simple as that. If you try out other preamps that do not have gain adjustability, you are likely to encounter the same issue. Thankfully, it's an easy fix.