Well,
First of all.. I want to thank each & everyone of you for your time & input to my dilemma. From all your helpful info I was able to put some thoughts together & tame things down enough were my wife can now listen with out running out out the room. The remedy, or at least patial one is as follows:
1. A fellow Agoner e-mailed me a few times with a suggestion to go to Home Depot and get #14 Orange/Red and Black extention cord. They were temporarly out of the 14ga so I got the 12ga. Made up a double 8' run for each Quad to the Nad. Result: Almost immediate improvement. First imperssions (about 4 hours later) a much smoother high end minus that "Bite" that bothered my wife. Second it did not take away the detail (that I like so much) from the Quads.
2. (Approximatly 12 hours later) I moved the Quads closer to the back wall. Rear port 24" from rear wall with ~ 25 degree toe in ~7' apart. Result: Middle starting to fill in nicely and were starting to hear a more organic texture in things like Sax & vocals especially female, like we used to get from our ProAc's. Things are definatly starting to shape up nicely.
3. I played with the tilt,and decided to stay with the recommended amount from the review. The hight of the soundstage seemed like it droped too low in our inviornment with them on a level plane.
Conclusion:
(Well at least my wife can now listen). Oh, and as far as the Bass it has improved, not stronger or louder, but it seems as though it stands out more from the music now. Hopefully as the wire burns in it will get better or until I can save a few Peso's to get the L series sub from Quad.
Thanks (to all) again. It's been fun..
Mike