My point was not to seek advice for myself (I've given up), but to point out that those who do have wives and girlfriends should Count your Blessings and not 'bitch' about 'wife approval factor' and crap like that. If you are married - just imagine for a second what your life would be like with no women, love, sex period, and having to live out the rest of your life like that - hearing about people 20 yrs younger than you getting married and having sex/kids. Kinda blows don't it?