I use a dbx Drive Rack PA as a crossover and EQ. It also contains a real time analyzer with room correction. I'm not certain it does what you want but you can get it from Amazon for about $400 with another $90 for the dbx matching mic. After that, all you need is a microphone cable long enough to run from the Drive Rack to your listening position. Also good to have a mic stand.
Check around as to how it suits your goals before buying but I think you will find pro gear is very good even if HP doesn't recommend it.
Check around as to how it suits your goals before buying but I think you will find pro gear is very good even if HP doesn't recommend it.