I think that the problem with tapping a DD sub off the main power amp is that (AFAIK) you can't use the RTA/Room EQ function that the sub offers in that configuration - unless I'm reading this wrong (always possible!) In my book, the Room EQ is probably the single best reason to use the sub in the first place (particularly with your speakers).
Incidentally, I assume that the 2 channel pre-amp indicates a music only system. In this case, I'd think that any roll off at the bottom of the sub's passband is unlikely to be very important, since there isn't a lot of music program info that low in pitch (and it can be EQ'd back, anyway, if you really want it).
If Cary says that running RCAs and XLRs concurrently is a no-no, I'd go the XLR splitter route described by Edorr.
Just my take.
Marty
Incidentally, I assume that the 2 channel pre-amp indicates a music only system. In this case, I'd think that any roll off at the bottom of the sub's passband is unlikely to be very important, since there isn't a lot of music program info that low in pitch (and it can be EQ'd back, anyway, if you really want it).
If Cary says that running RCAs and XLRs concurrently is a no-no, I'd go the XLR splitter route described by Edorr.
Just my take.
Marty