Hi Magister, The way you are measuring is not a high enough resolution and it is only part of the story. You also need to see waterfall plots and RT60 times.
The best way to do this is with the FREE program REW (Room EQ Wizard) available for FREE at the Home Theater Shack. ITS FREE!!!!!
1) plus or minus 5db is good, plus or minus 3bd is exceptional, You can always plan on a few large peaks/nulls that are part of your house sound (along with the sound of your equipment)
2) you "can't" do anything about the sound of your equipment, so buy quality. You did:). Your ears do have the ability to compensate depending on the Q and levels of the peaks and nulls. But dont expect them to compensate for a 10db peak/null.
3) Radio Shack meter is not accurate at these frequencies.
4) The difference between 75 and 80 db is twice as loud! 93db is definitely giving you bass boom.
5) It's all frequency-related. Base peaks limit the volume you can listen at. They also affect the sound of recordings where some may appear skewed.
The answer to your question is bass traps and broadband absorbtion of enough size and quantity to effect a change in room.
Bob