Is your attic finished? If not, I would mount the fan in the attic (not in the ceiling of your listening room) on top of the joists - utilizing good damping material between the fan and the joists (do a search for after-market noise isolation mounting materials/products). You can easily construct a duct between the fan and the ceiling of your listening room -which can also be damped (provided that you don't obstruct air flow). The duct work must be air-tight to insure maximum ventilation I would suggest avoiding metal/tin duct work, as it is noisy (MDF may be a better solution. Make sure you damp the duct work from the fan, as the ductwork can act like a speaker cabinet projecting the sound back into your room. This will not eliminate all of the mechanical noise, but it will reduce the noise compared to mounting it directly in your ceiling.
Note: you can also tweak the fan itself with damping materials (i.e.: soft fan/motor mounts, silicone motor mounts, etc.). The thing is, you want to decouple the fan from the mounting area (in this case your house).
Note: you can also tweak the fan itself with damping materials (i.e.: soft fan/motor mounts, silicone motor mounts, etc.). The thing is, you want to decouple the fan from the mounting area (in this case your house).