Which attenuators do I want to use?


I was using a set of Rothwell RCA 10dB in line attenuators between my Jolida CDP and my Classe DR-5 preamp. One broke. My interconnects are Virtual Dynamics Davids which are a bit heavy. I'm now looking at other options. Thought about a set of Rothwell XLR 10dB attenuators to put between the preamp and amp for attenuation of all signals to the Pass Labs X-250 amplifier. Then there's another option I found poking around online, which is a set of 10dB XLR balanced line level fixed audio attenuators from Rackmount-Devices.com. These go for half the cost of the Rothwells, but I don't know what quality they are.
I found that when I was using the CDP with the Rothwells, I could only turn the volume up to about 8:30-9:00 position. Any more and it got a bit loud. Would a set of 20dB attenuators get my volume control up into the 10:00-12:00 position where I can get the best performance out of my preamp? A set of 20dBs from Rackmount costs the same as a set of 10dBs, I believe.
I don't want to spend hundreds. Just had my hearing tested, and, again, there is a small loss. I'm 52 years old. I figure I'll be able to remove the attenuators as my hearing gets worse. I think I'll have to get my wife some earplugs when this time rolls around.
Thanks in advance for any and all input.
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Photon46, I understand where you're coming from. I've been debating on whether keeping the whole system or just getting rid of it. I love it, but I find myself falling asleep often during listening sessions, or just thinking about alot of other things I could (should) be doing instead. I fall asleep because I work long hours. The cost really makes little difference in my decision, since the option Bob Reynolds posted looks to be the route I'll go. Just trying to save a few bucks. Thanks to you both.
Was able to order a NHT PVC Pro online fron their website, so they must still be selling the inventory.
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I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM,INSTEAD OF TRYING DIFFERENT ATTENUATORS I BOUGHT A RICHARD LEE PASSIVE PREAMP AND I PUT IT BETWEEN MY TUNER AND PREAMP,IT HAS A VOLUME CONTROL SO YOU CAN AJUST IT TO WHAT VOLUME YOU LIKE.NO MORE GUESSING ON WHAT TYPE OF ATTENUATORS ANYMORE.GOOD LUCK.