I've made a lot of progress, Splashtop is fixed.
I have a Wyred4Sound dac2 on it's way to me, I set up a Buffalo 2 drive RAID and I installed XLD for ripping. I've been ripping a few discs today, but on playback I have some skipping and I don't know why. Is it the external drive, the ripping software or did I mess something up? I am ripping AIFF, I tried FLAC, but that won't go into ITunes, should I be using another format? I'm so close to being there, I just need to clean up some things and it would be nice to be able to talk to someone with more experience.