It's kinda' like walking into a club and approaching a woman with the line "Let's screw". You always could get lucky, but it shows you to be a pretty lame pickup artist and/or equally amateurish negotiator. Any negotiating strategy or ploy has to be judged by its effectiveness. If it works for you..., but I'm going to ignore you.
Thank you very much.
No, thank you Onhwy61. That mental image is a real hoot!
I look at it the same way. If someone asks WYBP, they run the risk of wasting time and losing out to more motivated folks willing to make an offer and start the sales process. While WYBP-ers may occasionally get lucky, it's a tough way to meet a nice girl