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why don't they get it?

Please tell me why woman or at least most don't get it when it comes to good audio gear. I was in a Florida thrift not to long ago with girlfriend when I spotted a Kenwood 8300 tuner in absolute mint condition for the asking price of 20bucks, so of course I did the the sane thing I plugged it in when everything seemed kosher I happliy made my purchase. Now all the while she can't believe that I am interested in this old and according to her, an ugly archaic hunk of junk,now all the time I am trying to educate her about good quality equiptment that was built at a time when pride and and sound prodution was an important factor. But of course nothing I could say would change her mind if it doesn't have a blue light around the volume knob and volume control she is not interested. I guess it must be the female mind.
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rcprince
3,074 posts
 
I'm sorry, but in this case I don't get it either!
cwlondon
1,210 posts
 
Having walked many miles in your mocassins, let me assure you that there is more than one fish in the sea.

Please feel free to write any time for additional advice and/or associated bibliography.
avguygeorge
2,300 posts
 
I guess anybody whom has been in the hobby for more than a week should already understand.---There are hundreds of hobbies I have no interest in. Most folk are in part; a part of what they have been exposed to.---Hey, she might have been thinking to herself--what's with this guy?-- that ain't no Marantz/ Mac 72,or similar.
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gammajo
846 posts
 
Generalizing here - Do you get her purses, shoes, and little ceramic nicknacks? Viva la difference. Mutual respect allows humorous tolerance of the quirks of others and celebration of what makes them happy. Hopefully this goes both ways. But I do understand your frustration - it would be nice to share more of the delight I feel with small audio treasures with my lovely lady. I feel agon is very much enhanced by the women who do get it.
krell_man
827 posts
 
I understand completely, but think about something for a minute. What do you think about all of the clothes and shoes that she probably has, or her decorating tastes, or her movie choices? It's just different ways people have and their priorities and views. The big problem is when one tries to force their way of looking at the world on to someone else, it's not their right. Relationships are supposed to be give and take.
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