Albert,
Maybe you can check with your Dali dealer or ask a factory technician about the torque. They might pre-torque these to factory specs and then, as you mentioned, they might put some lok-tite on the screws to keep them from loosening with time. It made me cringe to see that you couldn't tighten them with " all my strength..." You don't want to break off a screw or strip the wood out.
Maybe you can check with your Dali dealer or ask a factory technician about the torque. They might pre-torque these to factory specs and then, as you mentioned, they might put some lok-tite on the screws to keep them from loosening with time. It made me cringe to see that you couldn't tighten them with " all my strength..." You don't want to break off a screw or strip the wood out.