Hey Jeffloistarca, you nailed it! My oldest son has been taking(more accurate than borrowing) my cds for about 4 years now. He is 17.
I started him out listening to my system with Jazz, like Desmond, Baker, Ella, Sarah...and much more...but it paid off. He has been playing the trumpet in 3 or 4 bands for the last few years...and has just great taste in music, film, food...etc.and he has no tattoo's and does not wear a baseball cap backwards..so he can have those cd's!...but the few I do get back, and the ones I use can always use some care..so thanks to all for the suggestions.
Jim