If one has no real life frame of reference as to the sound of 'live' musical instruments in a non-amplified setting, then just relying on measurements might not be a bad idea.
Hi Dave. Long time no see. On your comment, measurements are a great idea no matter what. Ask any acousticians how to optimize the bass response in a room: they say to measure. It doesn't matter how much you know some music. Knowing that you have a peak at 40 and not 50 Hz won't come from that. It will come from measurements.
And of course, what is on the recoding is not a copy of the live experience. No microphone can capture what your two ears and a brain do in live music. And of course that is on top of all the manipulations done in mixing and mastering of music. It is best to think of a recording as a painting of real life, not a photograph. In that sense, familiarity with real instruments won't help you. This is why musicians as a rule are not audiophiles.