Don't Feel Guilty Spending $$$

If I dont spend it my wife will sounds like 2 children sharing a candy bar both trying to make sure the other doesnt get more:)

The only reason why I feel terrible sometimes about spending money on hi fi is when I never get the time to even enjoy it anymore.

Working 70-80 hours a week leaves very little time to enjoy anything really. Sometimes I feel bad because I bought some nice gear but I can't even tell you the last time I turned on my projector, its been over a month I know.

Oh well, maybe once I finally get up there in age I can enjoy some of it. At that point anything I buy new will be a collector's item. :)

"Working 70-80 hours a week leaves very little time to enjoy anything really."

How bout you stop working that much? Your life is your own and you only get one...

How bout you stop working that much? Your life is your own and you only get one...

so if you're willing to hire me for a job that would pay well and work a solid 40 a week and have a chance at a good career path than I'm all ears. If not then I will just have to continue doing what I do in order to try and advance myself.

Don't get to worked up 63, I think most of us understand your situation. But keep in mind many of us have had prosperous times and have become complacent, please don't hold that against us.