First all stereo system nevermind their price, because they are two speakers sound source are flawed... Read Choueiri acoustical articles...
Second if your room is not very well acoustically balanced you will not hear what is in the recording because your speakers/room is not optimally under controls enough to TRANSLATE in your own room and to reveal all spatial acoustic information contained in the recordings...
Than this sentence is not even wrong and like describing the realitty in reverse order like if walking on your head was normal 😁:
"If it’s not on the recording, it’s not in your listening room" — BINGO @bigtwin !
You will listen what is in the recording only if you compensate for the crosstalk effect of any stereo system impeding any acoustical spatial information and only if your room is acoustically controlled and well balanced with the speakers/listener location / room coupling..
Why then someone can say the opposite of reality ?
it is because people think erroneously that acoustics parameters of the recorded room are automatically reproduced right in their own acoustical environment because their dac or turntable are TOP gear paid a high price 😋... Sorry you need acoustics controls of the room , filters for the crosstalk and even ideally inner ears measure and HTRF measures ..
Gear fetichism dont replace acoustics science...